Being yourself, being the person that you were brought up to be, being the person that you have crafted yourself to be, should be an easy thing. It should be easy to be the only person that you've ever been, which is you. Often people of all ages find it difficult to be themselves for a number of reasons. It could be that they are not respected by the people they surround themselves with. Sometimes it happens that they want to create an invisible barrier between them and the people that they call their friends, or their family and they don't feel like they can truly be authentic. In this collection of poetry, we address the idea of not being able to be who you are but we want to encourage people to do exactly that. In Exhausting we follow the story of someone and all of the things that they do for other people and outside sources that stops them from being able to do things for themselves. Realizing that the energy that we pour into other people’s needs is always taking energy away from our own. And in Solo we address all of the things that make us individuals and all of the reasons that it is okay to look in the mirror and only see oneself. It is also supported that you celebrate those moments that you have to spend loving who you are in that moment at that specific time in your life. Life is difficult already, but it is even more of a challenge if the person you spend the most time with isn't someone that you have learned to love.
Encouraging People to Be Themselves: Exhausting, Solo
Not drinking enough water
Too much salt
Too much sitting around
Finding balance
Like the baby taking their first steps
Trying to figure out how to balance their weight
So, they don’t fall
Because no one wants to fall
Down in your lowest possible state
No one picking you up
Seeing the sky and realizing just how far away it is
Working to shake it of
I need to clear my head
Get the confidence to try again
But it’s all just so
…exhausting.
Ever heard someone say that before?
“I’m exhausted. Work, school
Family, homework,
Classes
Life
Social media
Selfie at just the right angle
Smile with the right balance
Of attitude and attractiveness
I want “likes”
No, no, no, I am told I need “likes”
To feel good about myself
So that I know that others admire me
Right?
That’s what I’m looking for I think-
No, I don’t think because I have passed that over
Handed it off
A hell of a relay runner I am
baton- passed
self-esteem- passed
passing off this thing and that thing
didn’t even see that my arms
getting heavier and heavier
never able to recover
constant…